Realistically Following Our Dreams
Because it makes a classic good story, Hollywood inspirational movies are big on the "following our dreams" theme, but like everything Hollywood does, it simplifies the matter to the point of turning it into a fairy tale. Those who believe too strongly in the movie version of life (even -- and especially -- if the tale is "based on a true story") are destined to be disappointed, because Hollywood dreams, with the predictability of a Disney movie, always tie up neatly at the end.
Dreams, aspirations, ambitions, and hopes are funny things: we all have them; most of us (wisely) share the details with only a few trusted people; and all of us, at some point, wonder if we're crazy, overreaching, or unrealistic about what lies so deep within our heart that we can't remove it.
The house in Steve Henderson's painting above, Forgotten Path, is an example of a dream that one family had: to homestead land, raise a family, eat what they grew, and build a decent life based upon simplicity, hard work, and well-earned rest. For this family, that did happen, and though the house is now abandoned, it had -- many years ago -- its moments of noise, laughter, busy days, and quiet nights.
There are a number of such houses in the Pacific Northwest where we live, and with most of them, we are left to wonder because we don't know anyone who lived in them, or who remembers the story of how they came about. But every abandoned house has it story, its residents who had a dream and set about working to achieve it, and thereby lies the classic good story, one that remains with humanity in every generation:
Human beings dream and reach for lofty things (one hopes that they are good, lofty things that do not interfere with the efforts of other human beings to reach for their own good, lofty things). We try, we work, we brainstorm, we fall, we get up, we fall again and we get up again. The very frustrations that impel us forward are frequently the impetus that keep us moving, and they are the backbone of the stories we tell about the journey we make.
Reaching for a dream is a lifetime activity, one lived day by day, and no Hollywood movie -- in its two hours of encapsulation -- can capture the determination, heartbreak, joy, disappointment, encouragement, confusion, and confidence it takes to achieve what lies deep in our hearts.
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